Archive for November, 2025

I had the opportunity to spend some time with an old work friend recently who I hadn’t seen for a long time. At one point, we had worked together every day for two years but after I left that company, I lost touch with him. But as luck would have it, I had the chance to re-connect with him over some dinner so I took advantage. 

As you can imagine, we talked about the usual work stuff and family stuff but somehow the topic bent toward him planning to win the lottery. 

To be clear, in MY mind, that topic was mentally wasting energy because the chances of winning are not worth spending the time thinking about what you would do with all that money. But as I sat there and listened to my friend talk, I realized he had taken this lottery-planning topic to a whole new level. 

Honestly, the amount of detail he had already planned out was utterly amazing. He knew what businesses and stocks he would invest in, who he planned to give money to, and how much. He knew what upgrades he would make to his home, where he would take his first vacation, how he would quit his job, and the list went on and on. 

He even worked out a plan to help his kids pay off their student loans, buy his parents, sister, and nephews new homes…and guys, I could keep going. I finally interrupted him and asked him why? Why would you invest so much of your time and brainpower on a topic that will most likely NEVER happen? 

He replied simply, “ah, but it could, and I want to be prepared”

“Prepared”, I thought. “That is an Interesting concept.”

From your perspective, what does it really take to be prepared for anything? Investing your time and brain power towards something helps one be prepared. However, from a Christian persepctive, Christ told us to prepare by storing up for ourselves, treasures in Heaven. 

In other words, preparation for eternity…not preparation for winning the lottery, or for that matter, anything else here on earth. Besides, like my Dad always used to say, “you can’t take it with you”.

But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust can consume, and where thieves can neither break through nor steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Matt. 6:20-21

So what is a treasure in heaven? How can I have any connection with heaven while I am still here and living on this earth? 

Here is how I look at this; my friend was investing huge amounts of his physical time thinking about a fantasy event rather than thinking about how to make a difference now. 

For example, how about spending more time with his kids, or his wife, or both? What about focusing on or engaging with a particular subject that might make him better or even the people around him better? 

The way I see it, all of these suggestions are treasures that are being stored in heaven for him. It truly is like making a deposit in a bank or better yet, it’s an investment in your heavenly eternal future.

Jesus said, “How will they know me? By how YOU love one another”

Pretty simple actually. If we take the time to be kind to someone, anyone…when you aren’t required to do so… it helps them, but believe it or not, that is also a treasure YOU have stored in heaven. 

What you do here on earth is preparation for your eternal future…and it is SAFE

You see…everything we store up in heaven is safe…forever. There are not any malware or viruses that can wipe out your deposits in Heaven. Christ said in that same verse above, where neither moth nor rust can consume, and where thieves can neither break through nor steal.

NOTHING can destroy what you have stored there…It is safe for all eternity

My simple advice:

Why don’t we try to get out of our own way and focus on each other for a change, and watch what happens…

What I think you will find is a far happier group of family and friends because you aren’t 100% solely focused on you…or like my friend at the beginning of this post, who simply spent too much time planning for something that would never happen

So as you begin to look and plan for this next year, 2026…my recommendation is to start making your own heavenly deposits sooner rather than later…

Honestly, your future depends on it…

Until next time Guys…

One of the hardest things some of us had to deal with when we were younger, and maybe even now as adults, is peer pressure.  It’s that single point of divide where you are either one of the crowd or you separate and decide to act alone. As I am sure some of you have experienced, peer pressure is one of the strongest forms of influence you can be subjected to especially when you are young and aren’t equipped. You probably remember, that person who just goes with the flow.

Unfortunately, there are countless stories of young men who did not have the strength to say no, and found themselves in difficult situations that they only regretted later on. Whether that regret was with their family or even God, giving yourself over to the crowd, usually ends bad with all sorts of wrong outcomes.

I wanted to talk about that in today’s post after reading in 1 Peter 4:4 where he says, “they think it’s strange that you do not plunge with them into the same flood of dissipation (wasting away) and they heap abuse on you.“

Peter wrote these verses specifically to you and me who or are trying to separate themselves spiritually and more importantly, are working every day to keep it that way. The crowd or you’re so-called friends, when they see that you are not going to jump in with them…then heap abuse and insults on you. As if you are the problem.

Guys, are you ready for that abuse? Are you ready to be the one who separates from the crowd for the right reasons or are you the guy who can’t say no and just keeps on hanging out with that group?

Peter understood that point was important for all of us to comprehend. He tells us how we are going to be treated, but, and more importantly, he reminds all of us of what happens…in the end… if we don’t.

“But they will have to give a account to Him who is ready to judge the living and the dead“ 1 Peter 4:5

The way I see it, this is still your choice. It’s always been your individual choice. You can either live your life with the intent to serve God or you can continue to give into the peer pressure and keep going down the wide road which scripture tells us that ends in destruction. I am not being melodramatic…

I think that one of the main reasons why guys don’t make the right choice is because of the potential of suffering. But, I will tell you that those of us who willingly suffer for Christ’s cause find it easier to resist sin and to ultimately follow His will. What am I saying here? For all of us as Christian men, in 2025 soon to be 2026… You may be ridiculed for what you believe. Are you prepared for that?

My challenge to you today is to finally hand the steering wheel of your life over to God today and let Him drive. Make the choice to separate yourself from what the crowd is doing. Give Him the control and then watch, in wonder, what He does.

Why is this so important, so that when it comes time for you to give the account… of your life… God is only smiling.

Until next time Guys-